Valentine’s Day: A Celebration of Love in All Forms

If you follow me on social media, you probably know that I recently lost my dog, Que, in December. In June 2007, I adopted him at 5 weeks old. We stayed together until his passing. Although he was 17.5 years old, his sudden death was an emotional rollercoaster because one day we were going for a walk, and the next day we were at the vet saying goodbye. Upon his passing, everyone wrote messages saying how I gave him the best life and loved him so well. That is true; however, no one quite grasps how well he loved me, too.

Que’s passing has made me reflect deeply on what love really means and how it shows up in our lives—not just through romantic relationships but in the friendships, family connections, and even the bond we share with our pets. Valentine’s Day is often seen as a holiday for couples, but this Valentine’s Day, I think it’s an opportunity to honor love in all its forms.

With that in mind, here are some ways everyone can celebrate Valentine’s Day, whether it’s with friends, family, pets, significant others, or even neighbors. Let’s reframe this day as a chance to build connections and celebrate the love that surrounds us.

Celebrate Love with Friends

Friendships are some of the most valuable relationships we have, so why not make Valentine’s Day about your chosen family?

• Host a Friendship Dinner: Gather your closest friends for a potluck or dinner party. Share stories, laughter, and appreciation for one another.

• Exchange Tokens of Gratitude: Write notes or give small gifts to show your friends how much you value them.

• Plan a Group Activity: Whether it’s a movie night, a hike, or a game night, spending time together is a great way to celebrate your bond.

Honor Family Connections

Family often forms the foundation of love and support in our lives. Valentine’s Day can be an opportunity to strengthen those ties.

• Make It a Family Affair: Cook a special meal together or engage in a fun activity like baking heart-shaped cookies or crafting Valentine’s cards.

• Express Gratitude: Use this day to share with your family members what you love and appreciate about them.

• Reconnect: If you’re apart, a simple phone call or video chat can be a meaningful way to celebrate.

Show Love to Your Pet(s) 🐾

Our furry companions are often our most loyal friends, and they deserve to feel the love too.

• Spoil Your Pet: Treat them to their favorite snacks, a new toy, or extra cuddles.

• Go on an Adventure: Take them on a long walk or explore a new park.

• Create a Keepsake: Snap a photo together and frame it to cherish the bond you share.

Build Community with Neighbors

Did you know isolation and disconnection can greatly contribute to feelings of depression? Valentine’s Day is a wonderful excuse to connect with those who live nearby, fostering a sense of community and reducing feelings of isolation. D

• Deliver Small Treats: Share homemade cookies or small gifts with your neighbors as a gesture of kindness.

• Organize a Block Gathering: Bring people together for a casual coffee morning or evening meetup.

• Spread Kindness: Offer to help a neighbor with a task or simply take time to chat and connect.

Celebrate with Your Significant Other

For those in romantic relationships, Valentine’s Day can still be a day of connection and shared joy.

• Focus on Meaning: Instead of grand gestures, focus on what truly matters—quality time, heartfelt conversations, and simple expressions of love.

• Try Something New Together: Explore a new activity, restaurant, or hobby as a way to deepen your bond.

• Express Your Feelings: Take time to write a meaningful letter or create a small token of your affection.

Practice Self-Love

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about others; it’s also a great time to focus on yourself.

• Treat Yourself: Do something you enjoy, whether it’s indulging in your favorite meal, watching a beloved movie, or buying yourself flowers.

• Reflect and Recharge: Spend time journaling about the relationships you’re grateful for and setting intentions for deeper connections.

• Pamper Yourself: Enjoy a spa night, take a relaxing bath, or simply do something that brings you joy and peace.

Let’s reframe Valentine’s Day this year.

Valentine’s Day can sometimes feel exclusionary or lonely, but it doesn’t have to be. By broadening the definition of love and using this day to celebrate connection, you can make it meaningful for yourself and those around you. Remember, love exists in many forms, and this holiday is a chance to honor one or all of them—romantic, platonic, familial, and self-love alike.

This Valentine’s Day, let’s all take a moment to reach out, connect, and show appreciation for the people, pets, and communities that make our lives richer.

Because love, in all its forms, deserves to be celebrated.